How do you deal with it? Breaking up with the guy is not an option.
Do you try to be friends? Ignore each other? Back off whenever she's around?
We had an incident this week. G (stepson) fell at daycare and required stitches. I of course left work to meet them at urgent care. Baby Mama decided to come also (well within her rights, she's his mother, it'd be kinda odd if she didn't want to come, but she was at first thinking there was no reason to go so I thought maybe she'd decide not to).
I sat in my car the whole time because I wasn't welcome in the room, or even the waiting room.
This can't go on forever. I want for us to be friends. That will never happen, so I think ignoring each other is the better option (but is this healthy for G to grow up around?). Choosing to give in and let her dictate my life is not a long-term option for me.
Do you try to be friends? Ignore each other? Back off whenever she's around?
We had an incident this week. G (stepson) fell at daycare and required stitches. I of course left work to meet them at urgent care. Baby Mama decided to come also (well within her rights, she's his mother, it'd be kinda odd if she didn't want to come, but she was at first thinking there was no reason to go so I thought maybe she'd decide not to).
I sat in my car the whole time because I wasn't welcome in the room, or even the waiting room.
This can't go on forever. I want for us to be friends. That will never happen, so I think ignoring each other is the better option (but is this healthy for G to grow up around?). Choosing to give in and let her dictate my life is not a long-term option for me.
Baby Mama Drama
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