Looking for the unbiased input and support that the AO can provide.
I believe I would be happier outside of my marriage. I don't feel a connection to my husband anymore and don't feel that I'm "in love" with him. Looking back on it, I don't think I should have married him.
He's not a bad person, but there are things that have happened through the marriage that changed the way I saw him and how I felt for him. Basically a lot of fights, but bad ones (not physical abuse) where I was treated in a way that I shouldn't have been.
We have a young child (6 yrs old) and husband still loves me. I feel a tremendous amount of guilt about ending this because I don't feel like it's fair to either of them. But at the same time, I don't think it's fair to me to stay in a marriage where I'm not happy and don't see it happening in the future. When I'm optimistic I think that my kid and my husband will both be OK with this eventually and that things will work out, just like they do for most people that go through this.
Am I completely destroying my kid's life by leaving my husband? How do I ask for a divorce if my husband is saying that it would "destroy" him?
(FYI - we have been to couples counseling and I am in individual counseling)
I believe I would be happier outside of my marriage. I don't feel a connection to my husband anymore and don't feel that I'm "in love" with him. Looking back on it, I don't think I should have married him.
He's not a bad person, but there are things that have happened through the marriage that changed the way I saw him and how I felt for him. Basically a lot of fights, but bad ones (not physical abuse) where I was treated in a way that I shouldn't have been.
We have a young child (6 yrs old) and husband still loves me. I feel a tremendous amount of guilt about ending this because I don't feel like it's fair to either of them. But at the same time, I don't think it's fair to me to stay in a marriage where I'm not happy and don't see it happening in the future. When I'm optimistic I think that my kid and my husband will both be OK with this eventually and that things will work out, just like they do for most people that go through this.
Am I completely destroying my kid's life by leaving my husband? How do I ask for a divorce if my husband is saying that it would "destroy" him?
(FYI - we have been to couples counseling and I am in individual counseling)
Thinking of getting a divorce
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